Skip to content Skip to footer

Manjal Neraattu Vizha | A Perky Puberty Ceremony

Indian traditions have awed each and every one of us through their uniqueness and interesting ritualistic highlights. Hitting puberty is still treated as misogyny in many pockets of Indian village zones as well as metropolitan cities.Contrasting to the harsh response projected on this sensitive matter of womanhood, the traditions of South India would awe you even more. Their heartwarming approach to celebrating woman is quite commendable, as reviewed by the top 10 photographers in South India.

We are talking about the puberty ceremony and celebrations in Tamil Nadu. The extended rituals and beautiful Tamil traditions stir our hearts with the respect and care, a woman desires during their first menstrual cycle. We are beyond excited to take you through the ‘coming of age ceremony’ or ‘Manjal Neerattu Vizha’ of the very gorgeous Ananda Sasmita! Sit back and relax as we break down the highlights of Tamil Nadu’s Manjal Neerattu Vizha ceremony!

Manjal Neerattu Vizha ceremony

An Overview

The ‘coming of Age’ ceremony of Tamil Nadu is a symbol of paying respect to the struggles and challenges faced by young women with the strike of puberty. Most importantly, Tamil Puberty ceremony photos like these focus on empowering the glory of womanhood. And, it also boosts the confidence and courage of young girls to battle with the brand-new challenges they shall face in the future.

Ananda’s family organized a special event filled with lovely event decor and mouth-watering delicacies. Undoubtedly, the highlights of the Tamil Hindu puberty ceremony include the amazing ambiance filled with garden-fresh pooja necessities and temple flowers. Ananda looked like a diva in her brand new Manjal Neerattu Vizha portraits flaunting her henna-stained hands and crisp silk saree outfit!

Puberty Cremony Decorations

A Samskara

With the presence of close family and friends, the main event is conducted to celebrate the occasion with so much love and joy! Manjal Neerattu Vizha is considered to be a ‘Samskara’. A Samskara is an event that has ritualistic and religious importance in the Hindu Culture. Unlike the other ceremonies that are guarded and guided by the priests (mostly men), Manjal Neerattu Vizha is performed majorly by the women in the family.

The puberty period begins from the age of 13 for most women. The Tamil girl wears a gorgeous silk saree paired with heirloom jewelry or freshly purchased gold jewels. At the event, the girl is surrounded by her younger girl companions to celebrate the occasion together with grand gifts. Manjal Neerattu Vizha is performed during other auspicious occasions as well, such as pregnancy, weddings etc.

Manjal Neerattu Vizha CeremonyPics
The Ceremony

Begun with a pooja on the idol, the saffron red kumkum is placed on the idol first and then on the young girl who just hit puberty. Followed by which a freshly prepared paste of turmeric herbal mix for puberty ceremony is smeared on the forearms, forehead and cheeks of the girl.

The festivities are concluded with some other rituals. And, finally placing the kumkum once again on her forehead to protect from evil eyes. Added to that, the ceremony would consist of the guests taking turns to smear the turmeric herbal paste along with showering the lots and lots of valuable gifts.

The Aim

As per the records, ’Manjal Neerattu Vizha’ has been carried out for centuries and the array of events and functions used to be much more elaborated during those timeframes. To explain, the girl would be treated with special care for 10 to 12 days during her menstruation period. And, the other women from her family would assist her in her daily routine with divine essentials.

Added to that, the meals served to her would be enriched with nutrients and all the required vitamins to combat the new physical and mental health changes she would be dealing with. Most importantly, the festivities are taken to the same importance as that of a wedding. Thereby, celebrating it as a happy occasion rather than discarding it with the associated taboos of Coming-of-Age ceremony.

Coming-of-Age Ceremony

The History

In the previous decades when telephonic and internet services weren’t invented yet, the ‘coming of age’ news of the women in the family is informed to the relatives and acquaintances through letters, all across the village. Clearly, this helps to recognize the woman as a person who has entered the ‘fit for marriage age’. Thereby, the family expects to receive wedding proposals from eligible men since the Manjal Neerattu Vizha.

However, customs like this have been disappearing with the spurt of modernist arguments and ideologies of the 20th-century youth. The celebrations mentioned above are often held on the ninth day of hitting puberty in families who still follow the traditional system and associated rituals.

We hope that you had a great time flipping through the lovely South Indian traditions of Tamil Nadu. Lively colors in warm tones and the energetic aura we felt at the venue are beyond explanation. Here, we have targeted on unveiling the most interesting snapshots and details of the ritual to give a complete walkthrough of the pooja. Traditions like these never fail to amaze us with their uniqueness. And, we feel thrilled to the brim as we record and document each and every special moment! More than anything else, the rich heritage we explore in the Tamil Hindu culture makes us feel more grounded and connected to mother nature.

 

Leave a comment

0.0/5

https://youtu.be/dRJpQ2KiknI

Preethi's father abandoned her family when she was 12. Her mother was really ambitious to pursue a career in medicine and Preethi's father had agreed to it before their marriage. Later, he refused to fulfill his promise. Preeth's father used to physically abuse her mother a lot and due to his abusive behavior, her mother lost 50 percent of eyesight in one of her eyes.

Preethi's mother had to undergo a very intense and traumatic phase due to the fear of losing Preethi to her father. In 10 years' time, her mother realized that there will come a time where she has to take care of little Preethi all on her own. Hence she shifted to Russia for education with Preethi being taken care of by her Mama-Mami. Her mother made sure to visit Preethi once in 3 months.

In the meantime, Preethi's father cheated on her mother by claiming her savings. Once Preethi's mother found out about the matter, she gave up her education in Russia and came back to Preethi. But before she flew back, Preethi's father had already set his journey to Hyderabad and that was the last time Preethi saw her father.

Preethy felt immensely guilty for the difficulties faced by her mother. Her mother soon found a job in a well-reputed firm and she committed to over-time works. Preethi would be already asleep by the time her mother reached home after work. This was Preethi's life for many years. Upon knowing her mother's life, Preethi knew very well about what to find in her partner, subconsciously. The very first thing Preethi noticed in Aben was his dissimilarities with Preethi's father; Aben is extremely honest and open-hearted. Preethi's mother loved Aben when she met him and in 2017, Preethi and Aben decided to get married.

Aben's family was reserved about the proceedings, with Aben being a Christian and Preethi being a Tamil Brahmin. Preethi's mother traveled to Kerala for convincing Aben's parents. But she couldn't get them convinced and she assured Preethi that if Preethi and Aben are happy, she will get them married. In a nutshell, Preethi's mother decided to make use of all her savings to get her daughter married to Aben. Eventually, Aben's family came on good terms.

During the wedding planning, Preethi found out that the 'Kanyadaan' ceremony performed in Tamil weddings is done with the bride being seated on her father's lap. A relative made a suggestion about Preethi being seating on her mother's lap for Kanyadaan. Preethi felt the same because all her life, her mother has been providing her both paternal and maternal care, strength, and love.

Although 5 priests rejected their idea and they argued that it is not right for their culture, Preeti was determined. Within a few weeks, they found a priest who agreed to their idea. While the Kanyadaan was being performed, Preethi and her mother glanced at each other, bursting into tears. Preethi's mother hugged her and ruffled her hair. It was their beautiful moment. It was the least Preethi could do for her mother for what her mother has gone through, giving Preethi the best life. Preethi quotes her mother as a survivor, a warrior, and a protector.


The Wedding Film of Preethi & Aben

The wedding video of Aben & Preethi unwinds with heartwarming notes of close to heart family combined with the couple getting ready for their big day. The charming grace of a mother-daughter relationship is reflected all throughout the footage. Moments of ceremonial functions are flashed with lovely reels of the couple resonating with amazing chemistry. Traditional Tamil wedding rituals of Aben & Preethi are woven with a touch of elegance and tradition. The video focuses on imprinting all the special highlights of their big day so that the couple can travel back in time in the future, with Weva.#preethiabenwedding #weddingstory